The Red Wedding is a massacre at the wedding feast of Edmure Tully, Lord of Riverrun, and Roslin Frey at the Twins in 299 AC during the War of the Five Kings. The King in the North, Robb Stark, his mother Catelyn, and most of his three thousand five hundred soldiers are slaughtered. The event is orchestrated by its host, Lord Walder Frey, as revenge for Robb's breaking of a marriage pact he made with House Frey, and Walder's conspirator, Lord Roose Bolton. However, Walder would never have gone along with the massacre which violated all the sacred laws of hospitality without the promise of protection from Lord Tywin Lannister, the Hand of the King to Joffrey I Baratheon.
- 1 Background
- 2 Wedding Night
- 3 Aftermath
- 4 Frey Version
- 5 Participants
- 6 Rewards and Agreements
- 7 Influences
- 8 Quotes
- 9 See also
- 10 Notes
- 11 References
- 12 External Links
During the War of the Five Kings, the Freys initially rise in rebellion against the Iron Throne, securing an invaluable strategic position for the northmen. The rebellion is contingent on Robb Stark's betrothal to one of Lord Walder Frey's daughters. However, Lady Sybell Spicer and her brother, Ser Rolph, maneuver Sybell's daughter, Jeyne Westerling, into treating Robb's wounds after the storming of the Crag. Informed of the alleged deaths of his brothers Bran and Rickon after the capture of Winterfell, Robb sleeps with Jeyne and then marries her, a slight that Walder is unlikely to overlook. The Freys at Harrenhal with Lord Roose Bolton are outraged and those at the Crag and Riverrun angrily return to the Twins. After learning of the broken pact, Walder secretly begins corresponding with Roose, who has wed Walder's granddaughter Walda, and Lord Tywin Lannister for terms to bring House Frey back as a supporter of the Iron Throne.
Separately, Robb's mother, Catelyn Stark, releases Tywin's son, Ser Jaime Lannister, from imprisonment at Riverrun, hoping Tyrion Lannister in King's Landing will exchange Jaime for Robb's sisters, Sansa and Arya. En route, however, Vargo Hoat's Brave Companions chop off Jaime's sword hand and bring him to Roose Bolton at Harrenhal. Disavowing the Brave Companions' actions, Roose, whose son Ramsay was responsible for the sack of Winterfell, does not return Jaime to Robb or Lord Edmure Tully, but instead sends Jaime back to his family in King's Landing. Before parting, Jaime and Roose agree to give the other's regards to Robb and Tywin.
A ploy is developed in which Walder lures Robb to the Twins, under the pretense of an invite to another marriage pact, to allegedly forgive Robb's broken vow. The marriage, between Robb's uncle Edmure and Walder's daughter Roslin, is an invitation which Robb cannot decline after already slighting his allies once, since he needs House Frey's assistance for his planned siege of Moat Cailin. Robb leaves Jeyne at Riverrun with his great uncle, Ser Brynden Tully, while he journeys north with thirty-five hundred, mostly northmen with some rivermen in Edmure's retinue.
After Robb and his army arrive at the western castle of the Twins, he apologizes to Walder for his slight and Catelyn Stark asks for bread and salt to secure guest right. Robb, Catelyn, and Edmure are given chambers in the Water Tower between the two castles. Robb's men cross the roaring Green Fork to the eastern shore, where several thousand Freys are encamped amidst three great feast tents. Freys use several wagons and carts as a perimeter wall for the eastern camp's three tents and numerous pavilions. Roose Bolton brings five hundred horse and three thousand foot to the Twins, mostly men from the Dreadfort, as well as some Karstarks whose loyalty is in question after Robb's execution of Lord Rickard Karstark at Riverrun.
Lord Walder forbids Robb from keeping Grey Wind within his castles, since the Lord of the Crossing considers the direwolf dangerous. Separately, the outlaw Sandor Clegane brings Robb's missing sister, Arya, toward the Twins in hopes of a reward.
After Edmure weds Roslin, Lord Walder hosts a feast for the highborn in one of his castles, while a "bastard feast" for lesser ranks is held in the second castle. Common soldiers celebrate in tents outside the castle. The Freys provide wagons and casks of ale, mead, and wine to their guests.
Performed songs include "Alysanne", "Flowers of Spring", "Iron Lances", and "The Queen Took Off Her Sandal, the King Took Off His Crown". A drunken Greatjon Umber bellows "The Bear and the Maiden Fair". Robb dances with Roslin, several other Freys, and Dacey Mormont. Several poor dishes are served, the most appetizing being pink lamb. Roose toasts Walder's grandsons, Big Walder and Little Walder, who are in the care of Roose's son, Ramsay Snow, after the sack of Winterfell. As part of the bedding custom, Edmure and Roslin depart the hall in the company of many guests of the opposite gender.
By using sellswords and knights at the feast disguised as musicians, and getting Robb's men too drunk to fight, Lord Walder Frey is able to coordinate a massacre with little loss to his own men. While the unknowing Edmure beds Roslin, the twin castles and the outlying camp are signalled when the band in Walder's hall begins playing "The Rains of Castamere". Few of the northmen in the hall have a chance to react, and most are butchered on the spot by the musicians' crossbows or Frey knives. Ser Ryman Frey leads Frey men-at-arms with longaxes.
Mailed northmen in shaggy fur cloaks—Boltons and possibly Karstarks—join the Freys, and the betrayers kill many of Robb Stark's personal guard, including Smalljon Umber, Dacey Mormont, and Ser Wendel Manderly. Roose slays Robb, who was previously shot by crossbow bolts, with a thrust to the heart while stating that "Jaime Lannister sends his regards." Catelyn uses a knife to saw the neck of Lord Walder's grandson, the fool Jinglebell, after which Ser Raymund Frey slits Catelyn's throat.
While the Starks are being slaughtered in the hall, the unknowing Edmure impregnates Roslin in a bedchamber. Some guests who had accompanied them, such as the Greatjon, Patrek Mallister, and Ser Marq Piper, are overwhelmed and taken captive. Freys kill Grey Wind in the yard with crossbow quarrels, despite Ser Raynald Westerling's attempt to save the direwolf.
In the camp outside the eastern castle, the three specially-rigged feast tents collapse and are set aflame with fire arrows during the slaughter, having been oiled earlier. While drunken northmen burn inside the tents, Bastard Walder Rivers leads armored Frey men-at-arms against Robb's men outside of the tents. Sandor defends Arya against three men, including Ser Garse Goodbrook and Ser Tytos Frey, and the Hound escapes with Arya after knocking the girl unconscious.
Though no definitive count is known, most of Robb's men are killed or captured, while House Frey loses approximately fifty men in the camps.
After the battle, the Freys hack and mutilate Robb's body and cut off his head along with that of Grey Wind. In a mockery of Robb's relationship with his direwolf, the Freys sew Grey Wind's head onto Robb's decapitated body and nail a crown atop the direwolf's head. Robb's bronze and iron crown is kept by Ryman Frey. Catelyn is thrown naked into the river in a mockery of House Tully funeral customs. Frey soldiers ride along the Green Fork in search of stray Stark survivors.
When Salladhor Saan tells Stannis Baratheon of the massacre, he reports that the smallfolk call it "The Red Wedding". It ends the northern rebellion, with Roose Bolton being named the Warden of the North for his aid, and several great benefits to House Frey, including the lordship of Riverrun. However, it also destroys what honor is left in the house, as they violated one of the oldest and most sacred traditions of old, the guest right. This leads to antipathy and disgust towards the house by most Westerosi, including their own allies. Additionally, though no other house has dreamed to repeat the breaking of the right, it has left a more lasting stain on the ancient guest right, with safety and security in a strange castle no longer being considered guaranteed.
The Iron Throne gains a number of valuable prisoners which help resolve hostilities around Westeros, and most river lords bend the knee. With Edmure Tully captive, Ser Jaime Lannister is able to negotiate a peaceful resolution to the siege of Riverrun. Black Walder Frey threatens to hang Patrek Mallister outside his father's castle which results in Lord Jason's surrender at the siege of Seagard. Greatjon Umber and Ser Marq Piper are held as hostages to ensure their houses' loyalty; Hother Umber allies with Lord Bolton, and Lord Clement Piper is forced to help besiege Riverrun. Lord Jonos Bracken besieges Lord Tytos Blackwood at Raventree. To the displeasure of the Freys, they are informed by Jaime that King Tommen I Baratheon requires that all prisoners taken during the Red Wedding be turned over to the Iron Throne.
The massacre ruins House Frey's reputation. When Edwyn Frey calls those of House Piper who died at the Twins "traitors and rebels", Jaime Lannister tells his Frey allies that they are "twice as treacherous as Piper". Bronze Yohn Royce mentions the Freys as an example of guest right violators. Several of Lord Walder Frey's kin have been killed by the Brotherhood Without Banners (under the leadership of Lady Stoneheart, the resurrected Catelyn Stark) or northmen such as Lord Wyman Manderly in retaliation. During the siege of Riverrun Jaime sees Robb's crown worn by Ryman's whore. The crown ends up in the grasp of Lady Stoneheart after Ryman's party is ambushed.
Northmen resent the presence of Freys who traveled with Lord Bolton to Winterfell for the wedding of his son Ramsay, since many lost kin at the Red Wedding. The thousands of sparrows in the capital are especially furious about the massacre and violation of guest right. The small council discusses how to blame the Freys, and not the Iron Throne, for the Red Wedding, as did Tywin before his death.
Ser Jared Frey tells Lord Wyman Manderly that, contrary to the true story, the Red Wedding was actually Robb Stark's work. According to the Frey fictionalization, Robb changed into a wolf-man beast before the eyes of the Freys and tore out the throat of Jinglebell, a harmless simpleton. Furthermore, he allegedly would have slain Lord Walder Frey if Ser Wendel Manderly had not put himself in the way. According to this version of the event, the other northmen also turned into wolves to join Robb's attack.
- Lord Tywin Lannister.
- Lord Walder Frey.
- Lord Roose Bolton.
- Lame Lothar Frey, organizes the massacre with Lord Bolton and assigns a task for each Frey.
- Ser Rolph Spicer and his sister, Lady Spicer, plot with Tywin but do not realize Sybell's son, Ser Raynald Westerling, would be in danger.
In the Main Hall
- Merrett Frey and Petyr Frey are tasked with getting Greatjon Umber too drunk to fight back; they fail and pass out.
- Ser Danwell Frey, plays a drinking game with Marq Piper.
- Ser Ryman Frey slays Dacey Mormont.
- Black Walder Frey slays a Vance.
- Ser Hosteen Frey slays Lucas Blackwood.
- Ser Leslyn Haigh tries to subdue the drunk Greatjon Umber and loses an ear in the process.
- Ser Whalen Frey also drinks with the Greatjon but is sent to the yard to deal with Grey Wind.
- Lord Roose Bolton kills the injured Robb Stark with a sword thrust to the heart.
- Ser Raymund Frey slits Catelyn Stark's throat.
- Northmen wearing mail and fur cloaks (Boltons and possibly Karstarks).
In the Camps
- Ser Walder Rivers leads the attack against the northern host's camp.
- Ser Garse Goodbrook participates in the attack against the northern host's camp.
- Ser Tytos Frey participates in the attack against the northern host's camp.
- Jinglebell, throat cut by Catelyn.
- Ser Benfrey Frey, dies of a wound received during the massacre.
- Ser Tytos Frey, slain by Sandor Clegane.
- Ser Garse Goodbrook, slain by Sandor.
- Half a hundred men in the camps.
- King Robb Stark, hit by arrows and stabbed through the heart by Roose Bolton.
- Lady Catelyn Stark, throat slit by Raymund Frey.
- Ser Wendel Manderly, takes a crossbow bolt to the mouth.
- Smalljon Umber, Robb's guard, decapitated by Bolton or Karstark men.
- Dacey Mormont, Robb's guard, axed in the stomach by Ryman Frey.
- Donnel Locke, felled by crossbow bolts.
- Owen Norrey, felled by crossbow bolts.
- Robin Flint, Robb's guard, surrounded by Freys and stabbed to death.
- Lucas Blackwood, killed by Hosteen Frey.
- Unknown Vance, killed by Black Walder Frey.
- Ser Raynald Westerling, wounded by a crossbow bolt before jumping into the river in his attempt to free Grey Wind.
- Grey Wind, hit by several crossbow bolts.
- Lord Edmure Tully, taken to Riverrun, now en route to Casterly Rock.
- Lord Greatjon Umber
- Patrek Mallister, Robb's guard, now hostage at Seagard with his father.
- Ser Marq Piper
- Perwyn, Olyvar, and Alesander Frey are noted as absent. It is believed they were too sympathetic to Robb Stark and his comrades to be involved.
- Lord Jason Mallister is sent from Hag's Mire to Seagard. His longships are to bring Galbart Glover and Lady Maege Mormont to Greywater Watch in the Neck to find Lord Howland Reed. Jason surrenders Seagard to spare the life of his captured son, Patrek.
- Ser Brynden Tully stays behind at Riverrun to defend the riverlands as Warden of the Southern Marches, with the aid of the river lords.
Rewards and Agreements
- Ser Emmon Frey, second son of Lord Walder, is granted Riverrun with all its lands and incomes, but not the title of Lord Paramount of the Trident which had been granted to Petyr Baelish, the Lord of Harrenhal. Emmon had fought for House Lannister since the onset of the War of the Five Kings. House Frey of Riverrun is thus founded.
- Amerei Frey, who has a claim to the lands of House Darry, is married to Lord Lancel Lannister, thus creating House Lannister of Darry.
- A girl of House Frey is to marry Ser Daven Lannister.
- One of Lord Walder's bastard sons is to marry Joy Hill, bastard daughter of the late Gerion Lannister.
- Lord Walder offers a daughter to Lord Wyman Manderly. Rhaegar and Little Walder Frey are to marry Wynafryd and Wylla Manderly, respectively.
- Lord Roose Bolton is declared Warden of the North.
- The legitimized Ramsay Bolton is to marry "Arya Stark".
- Ser Raynald Westerling is promised a bride of Casterly Rock.
- Ser Rolph Spicer is made Lord of Castamere.
Was there ever a wedding less joyful?
Your Grace, the septon has prayed his prayers, some words have been said, and Lord Edmure's wrapped my sweetling in a fish cloak, but they are not yet man and wife. A sword needs a sheath, heh, and a wedding needs a bedding.
Catelyn: On my honor as a Tully, on my honor as a Stark, I will trade your boy's life for Robb's. A son for a son.
Walder: A son for a son, heh. But that's a grandson ... and he never was much use.
The camp had become a battlefield. No, a butcher's den.—Arya Stark's thoughts
Tywin: Explain to me why it is more noble to kill ten thousand men in battle than a dozen at dinner. The price was cheap by any measure. The crown shall grant Riverrun to Ser Emmon Frey once the Blackfish yields. Lancel and Daven must marry Frey girls, Joy is to wed one of Lord Walder's natural sons when she's old enough, and Roose Bolton becomes Warden of the North and takes home Arya Stark.
Tyrion: Arya Stark? And Bolton? I might have known Frey would not have the stomach to act alone.
The Red Wedding was my father's work, and Ryman's and Lord Bolton's. Lothar rigged the tents to collapse and put the crossbowmen in the gallery with the musicians, Bastard Walder led the attack on the camps ...
Jared: The Red Wedding was the Young Wolf's work. He changed into a beast before our eyes and tore out the throat of my cousin Jinglebell, a harmless simpleton. He would have slain my lord father too, if Ser Wendel had not put himself in the way.
Davos: Is it your claim that Robb Stark killed Wendel Manderly?Davos: Jared of House Frey, I name you liar.
Jared: And many more. Mine own son Tytos was amongst them, and my daughter's husband. When Stark changed into a wolf, his northmen did the same. The mark of the beast was on them all. Wargs birth other wargs with a bite, it is well-known. It was all my brothers and I could do to put them down before they slew us all.
Davos: Ser, may I have your name?
Jared: Ser Jared, of House Frey.
They speak of wargs and skinchangers and assert that it was Robb Stark who slew my Wendel. The arrogance of it! They do not expect the north to believe their lies, not truly, but they think we must pretend to believe or die. Roose Bolton lies about his part in the Red Wedding, and his bastard lies about the fall of Winterfell. And yet so long as they held Wylis I had no choice but to eat all this excrement and praise the taste.
Barbrey: Lord Wyman is not the only one who lost kin at your Red Wedding, Frey. Do you imagine Whoresbane loves you any better? If you did not hold the Greatjon, he would pull out your entrails and make you eat them, as Lady Hornwood ate her fingers. Flints, Cerwyns, Tallharts, Slates ... they all had men with the Young Wolf.Stark dishonored us. That is what you northmen had best remember.
Robb who had been more a brother to Theon than any son born of Balon Greyjoy's loins. Murdered at the Red Wedding, butchered by the Freys. I should have been with him. Where was I? I should have died with him.—Theon Greyjoy's thoughts
Some of it can be difficult to do. I mean the Red Wedding was the hardest thing I ever wrote. I wrote the entire book, I skipped over the Red Wedding and wrote all the way to the end, and then I came back and did the Red Wedding, because it was just emotionally difficult to do that. But you know, hopefully, if it's hard to write, it'll be hard to read, too. It’ll affect the reader emotionally. I mean if the reader is just reading the book and terrible things happen, and they just put it aside and say, “What’s for dinner,” you’ve kind of failed. Your characters haven't achieved any reality here. If sad things happen in the book, the readers should be sad about them. And that does involve a certain amount of emotional vulnerability on the part of the writer.
- Burley men are not directly mentioned at the Red Wedding but are earlier mentioned as being part of Roose's host that is attacked by the Mountain's men whilst crossing the Trident, shortly before the Red Wedding. Therefore it can be assumed that the remnants of Houses Burley were present at the Red Wedding.
- House Mollen is not directly mentioned at the Red Wedding. However as they were present with Robb at the Whispering Wood it can be assumed they were present at later battles and events in the riverlands and westerlands, including the Red Wedding.
- House Slate is not directly mentioned at the Red Wedding. However it is stated by Lady Barbrey Dustin that the Slates campaigned in the riverlands & westerlands with Robb Stark. Therefore it can be assumed that Slates were present at the Red Wedding.
- The remnants of House Darry are present with Edmure Tully during the Battle of the Fords, therefore it can be assumed they are part of the host that accompanies Edmure & Robb to the Twins and so is present at the Red Wedding.
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- A Storm of Swords, Epilogue.
- A Storm of Swords, Chapter 49, Catelyn VI.
- A Dance with Dragons, Chapter 46, A Ghost in Winterfell.
- A Storm of Swords, Chapter 45, Catelyn V.
- A Storm of Swords, Chapter 51, Catelyn VII.
- A Dance with Dragons, Chapter 48, Jaime I.
- A Feast for Crows, Chapter 38, Jaime VI.
- A Storm of Swords, Appendix.
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- A Feast for Crows, Chapter 44, Jaime VII.
- A Game of Thrones, Chapter 59, Catelyn IX.
- George R. R. Martin's A World of Ice and Fire, Sybell Spicer.
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- A Storm of Swords, Chapter 44, Jaime VI.
- A Storm of Swords, Chapter 35, Catelyn IV.
- A Feast for Crows, Chapter 33, Jaime V.
- A Feast for Crows, Appendix.
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- A Storm of Swords, Chapter 54, Davos V.
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- So Spake Martin: Historical Influences, June 20, 2001
- So Spake Martin: Archon Meeting (October 5-7), October 05, 2001.
- The Week: The real-life events that inspired Game of Thrones' Red Wedding, June 5, 2013
- A Dance with Dragons, Chapter 29, Davos IV.
- A Dance with Dragons, Chapter 51, Theon I.
- LoneStarCon 3: The George R. R. Martin Interview